“Let’s get it on” sounds good on the song by Marvin Gaye but it is hardly the best opening line for a night of passion. Instead of stating the obvious, here are eight ways to put a woman in the mood.
- Set a romantic scene
She is a lady; she deserves a little romance once on a while. You can make a dish; but then again some men might object to this, so just buy a takeout. Some slow songs will not hurt. And, of course, turn off the lights. A romantic scene and an obvious effort will put her in the mood.
- Play a movie
It is very important to note that you should not play a comic movie to get a woman in the mood. Neither should you play pornography. It screams desperation. Fifty Shades of Grey or Game of Thrones will definitely do the trick. A movie that shows love, romance and sex is bound to turn the heat up.
- Talk about sex, subtly
When men want to have sex, their brain is filled with only one thing – sex! This is good because it can be to your advantage but then again try not to act like a pervert. Talk about your fantasies when it comes to sex, let her reveal hers. Even if she was bent on not having sex before, she is guaranteed to explore after a sexual conversation.
- Complement her body.
The fastest way to put a lady in the mood is to tell her how incredibly sexy she is. To put a lady in the mood tell her how better she will look with her clothes off. How you know she will be great in bed and other great things that get you turned on just looking at her body. Make sure you look at her like she is the only woman in the world.
- Buy her sexy outfits
Women love gifts but they love sexy gifts even more. An ordinary gift might get you a tight hug but a sexy gift like lingerie or a bodycon dress will get you a lot extra. A sexy outfit improves a lady’s self-esteem and makes her appreciate you even more.
- Seduce her
Women are not the only one born to seduce. Men also seduce and it is undeniably the best weapon to getting a woman in the mood. You should note that it is not all about kissing and touching; it is a game of the mind. Tell her something like “I have been imagining myself undressing you all day”. After this you can commence the touching process gently.
7. Keep those abs
Whether it is six-pack or 12-pack, just keep those abs and she will never not be in the mood. In case she needs to be turned on, remind her how sexy you still are.
- Switch up sexual activities
Having sex in a particular room and on the same bed every time can get boring. Switch it up a bit. Tell your woman to meet you at a hotel out of the blue. Treating her like a mistress will certainly turn her on.
